How to Tell a Girl You Like Her :)

That person who makes you mumble or drop a stack of papers while talking to her, or walk her to her locker and forget to go to person you like but can't let her know. Telling a girl you like her is simple, but is often complicated by muddled thinking. It requires some common sense - putting yourself in her position and considering that she doesn't really know you yet may help you as you prepare to let her know your feelings. Girls just love that.




Steps :


1.Look presentable and cool. Don't be intimidated by looks (hers or yours). Look around - beautiful girls aren't always with beautiful guys. A lot of times, funny or nice is better than handsome.


2.Be confident, be assertive, and control your nerves.


3.Be prepared for her answer. A nice, calm response from you, no matter what she says, can give her something to think about later, even if it doesn't seem to go your way at first.


4.Do it in person instead of calling her on the telephone. Asking a mate to do it for you has 50/50 chance of backfiring and making her think you aren't confident enough. Sometimes though, it works and the girl thinks it's really sweet that the boy is too nervous. If you don't feel confident enough, use the a phone conversation as a last resort. Most girls prefer talking face-to-face!


5.When you tell her, say something such as, "We've known each other for a while now, and I just want to say, when I first met you, it's like we connected on a deeper level than I have with anyone else, so I just had to tell you how I felt; I like you a lot." Something that has a little bit of a story, and is sweet. Girls like sweet guys! Don't just pass her in the hall and say "I like you." It's not as touching, will make you look silly, and the less touching it is, the less likely she is to respond the way you want.


6.Do not say anything stupid unless you are absolutely SURE she is going to laugh. Otherwise it just makes the situation more awkward for you.


7.Be honest. If you like a girl, tell her! But not in front of anyone or she may be compelled to say no under peer pressure.


8.Try to tell her you like her in a semi-private setting. It may be a good idea to ask her out to a movie. This will give you a chance to talk to her afterward without the influence of friends or family, allowing you to have her full attention.


9.Don't say it jokingly or she won't know if you really do like her or not. She might even think you were just teasing (trying to look cool or something, etc.) and get upset.


Tips :

• Don't get someone else to say something for you, she might think it's just a rumor. She might also think that you are scared of her and wimpy. The best way is to just be honest, and tell her that you like her.
• Since girls write each other notes, why not try writing her a note? Make sure the note doesn't look too obvious. Pass it on to one of her friends to give to her in class. However, it's up to you to tell her how you feel. And remember - a note can be dropped accidentally, or shared on purpose. If you're worried about keeping confidential until you know for sure how she feels, just talk to her.
• Don't hesitate. Once you're there, you're committed - don't beat around the bush and waste a lot of time. Be frank and come right to the point.
• Use positive thoughts when talking to her, tell yourself "she's going to say yes" instead of "what if"...? This will calm your nerves down.
• Don't make her feel like she owes you anything. That will only make her uncomfortable.
• Don't be afraid of rejection. It hurts, but you won't die from it.
• It would help if you have a life. It makes you look more appealing when you have interests of your own.
• Make sure you know the "importants" about the girl you are going to tell: e.g., religion. Some girls only date within their own belief system.
• Make sure you look busy but not too busy. You want her to know you've got nothing but time for her.
• Be prepared to live with your decision.
• Don't worry if she doesn't give you an answer right away. If it's meant to be it will be.
• Never lie to her or she will not think you are a trustworthy friend.
• Make sure her friends don't hate you. This makes for a TON of trouble.
• Never go around asking all of her friends for advice. It looks childish.
• If you have a friend who tells her you like her before you get the chance don't just stand there and panic,embrace it. (Don't get mad at your friend because he might think he's helping. Besides, what's to get mad? Now she has a clue. You can go to her, tell her the truth of your feelings, and say that your friend was trying to do you both a favor. If she is into you, it'll help move things along. If she isn't, just apologize for your friend. Don't apologize for your feelings, though. Just tell her it's okay and you can definitely be friends.)